I remember the first time I read a magazine
interview/article about Beyonce years ago (I tried to find it, but then
realized how much time I was wasting so I stopped). The writer took great pains
to speak about how humble she was and I believe there was a direct quote
from Beyonce herself saying she was "humble." I recall wondering if
it was even necessary to tell someone how humble you are, if you are indeed
"humble." I was turned off by that and the rest of the article and
haven't been a huge fan of her ever since.
Don't get me wrong, I love SOME of
the music, especially the early Destiny's Child stuff, but some of her lyrics
are just weird. That's how popular music is anyway, you can talk/sing about
almost anything, just put some great beats and music to it and you've got a hit
- which is one reason why there are so many females running around referring to
themselves and every other female as b__s.
Which brings me to the my motivation for writing today. Apparently
Queen (or King I'm not sure how she's referring to herself at this point) B has
decided to drop the humble act and go ahead and let all of us know where we
stand in her world: (click here to hear it for yourself)
"I know when you were little girls / You dreamt
of being in my world/Don’t forget it / Respect that / Bow down, b—s."
I guess she told us.
"I heard your boo was talkin' lip, I told my crew to
smack that trick."
"I didn't ___ your girl, but your sister was
alright."
Call me a hater if you want, but I have no respect for this
woman deciding to go backwards - this is something she should have released as a juvenile. As a 30-something new mother, one would expect her judgment to have gotten better. She has always talked about empowering women/girls, etc... Guess what, this is not empowering. This is just like every other
raggedy song you hear now that has something negative to say about women. It
seems that all she is doing is falling into the trend and following her
husband's lead.
I tried to believe that she was really this great person and
maybe the reason why I was annoyed by her was because she seemed to have it all
and perhaps I was just jealous. Now she has reaffirmed that my aversion to her
was not a simple case of envy, there was something under the surface that was
bugging me and I just couldn't pinpoint it. Now, she's brought it right up to
the surface.
I'm not bowing down, I'm just done.
I absolutely agree - your blog is right on point. I am saddened that she feels the need to go backwards instead of forward - to dis-empower,rather than empower, women. Well written!
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